Unconditional Love

Hello, my friend...

My dear friend...

My dear sweet friend...

How are you doing? I have hope, and I pray that you are alright today.

I want you to know that you are loved!

For some people, that is a hard thing to believe. Is it hard for you to think you are loved? I tell my readers I love them all the time because I do. I love you and maybe I don't even know you!

What if I do know you?

Over the last ten or twelve years that I have been blogging and tweeting, I have received emails and messages from individuals who want me to know it is impossible for me to love the way I say I do, and/or there is no such thing as God. These people are pretty adamant and passionate about their beliefs.

Not too long ago, a gentleman sent me a message telling me there was no way I could love him because I didn't even know him. He appeared to be quite angry that I dared to tell people I loved them because he thought I could not love someone if I didn't even know them.

If I had to know you to love you, that would be a condition to love. That, my dear sweet friend, is conditional love.

There's human conditioning, and therefore humans love conditionally.

If I know God, and we are all brothers and sisters spiritually in this world of humanity, and I love as God does, there is no need for conditions for my love. That, my dear sweet friend, is unconditional love.

We are unconditional love, and conditional love is what we do.

See the difference?

Unconditional love is our very essence of being spiritual.

Conditional love is the very experience of being human.

You may think I am crazy or resonate with what I am saying; if you don't get it now, you will sooner or later.

One of the most challenging years of my life was in 2011, and I've had some difficult years. That same year, I wrote a post titled "YOU ARE LOVABLE." Click on it, and you can read it if you'd like.

In one of my most challenging years, I was talking about love. I knew then that I needed to know I was lovable, and I believe I was talking to myself in that post.

What I am trying to say in all this ramble is I do know you; even if we have never met, I know you as a spiritual being, a spiritual daughter, or son of our Heavenly Father. 

And...

I know who I am, why I am here on this earth, and what I am supposed to be doing. That doing is the learning, lifting, listening, loving unconditionally, and understanding this human experience as a spiritual being.

I am unconditional love, and so are you. Maybe you don't know it because you have forgotten only temporarily, and I pray if you have forgotten it, I can point you in the direction of remembering it.

I just want you to know that you are loved! 

I love you!

God loves you!

God loves you and cares for you, and He is giving you all good things for your spiritual expansion in this human experience. 

That is all...

God bless you, my dear sweet friend. 

I am praying for your healing and understanding.

I love you; I honestly do!

Speak soon...

Elizabeth Stanfill 

If you love what you read here, you may find my books by clicking, books by Elizabeth Stanfill.

YOU ARE LOVABLE!!!

You are lovable! 

 

You are a divine being from your Heavenly Father!

 

When people are in a state of hate, they are unable to see the love that they are.

 

When people are in a state of appreciation and giving love, it is much easier to know love.

 

The only reason someone does not know they are lovable is that they are in a state of hatred and unkindness toward others and themselves. This place breeds the belief that one is not good enough. This hate can and does make one feel horrible about oneself and life.

 

Love is for giving!

 

Give love to yourself!

 

Be kind to yourself!

 

When you do this, you have love to give!

 

In my younger years, I was so angry, anxious, and depressed much of the time, and it was because I was so critical and discouraging to others and myself.

If we are critical and discouraging, it just means that we think it's okay, and then it becomes a habit of reaction.

 

As I got older and experienced life more, I decided I did not want to be unkind, so I began complimenting and encouraging.

 

This new way of being and training put me in a state of appreciation and love.

 

This love I now have has replaced my self-hate and unkindness towards others.

 

This love I now have fills me and continues to do so, and I have plenty to give.

 

This love shows me that I am lovable because I am full of love.

 

I have always known that I am a divine being, a daughter of my Heavenly Father, but I sure wasn't acting like it.

 

But now, I act like I know I am a divine being because Heavenly Father is love, and I come from Him; therefore, I ought to be love.

 

If you feel unlovable, you must know that the key to love is inside you. 

 

Love begins with appreciation and kindness. 

 

Begin complimenting yourself rather than criticizing, and encourage yourself rather than discouraging. If you do this, it will become a habit that spills over to others.

 

It is all about the focus. We are free to focus on what we want, and if we believe in God and Jesus Christ, then we can focus on the lessons of love.

 

Practice, practice, and practice some more, and you will become nearly perfect!

 

You are lovable!

 

You are a divine being!

 

I love you! And your Heavenly Father does too!

 

Speak soon.

 

Elizabeth Stanfill 

 

If you love what you read here, please find my books by clicking on Books by Elizabeth Stanfill.