How are you doing this day?
I pray with all my heart and soul you are doing okay!
One of my theories about life is...
There are three types of people:
Some will lift themselves and others because they know their value and worth. These individuals are the elite in life. They are people predominately who have overcome immense struggle and suffering and have figured out success, i.e., happiness comes from within. These beings make life very easy for others, their children, and themselves.
Some will lower themselves and others because they are unaware of their value and worth. These individuals are uncommon. They have had harsh conditioning at a young age and/or one or more devastations, which gives way to thoughts of insecurity towards others, life, and the self. These people make life very difficult for others, their children, and themselves. They are not easy to be around.
Some lift and lower themselves and others at any given moment based on their mood, the subject, or what they are going through in life at the time. These are the ordinary functioning people of our society.
The first category of people mentioned are very confident because they know their value and worth. The second and third types mentioned are those who experience insecurities.
Another theory I have is that insecurity is a massive wall to development and healing because insecure people put more value on being right than on knowing the truth. This behavior is confusing to children and can keep any being stagnant. These individuals may blame their unhappiness on others and/or their labels.
An insecure person may believe that others could and should control their behavior towards him or her to make them happy but doesn't believe in maintaining their own behavior. This is a bit insane.
We, unlike animals, have the free agency, the power, and the responsibility to choose what we will do, say, and think.
I was meditating this morning, as I do every morning, and I felt compelled to write this theory.
This may or may not resonate with you. But, if it does, it does, and if it doesn't, it doesn't. Either way, it's okay!
I love you!