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Saturday, March 30, 2019

Healing Stressful Habits

Well hello my friend!

Today I'd like to talk about healing stressful habits.

How are you doing?

I pray in the most emphatic way that you are okay.

Being human, by nature, is very stressful. It is that way because without the hurt we could not heal, without the struggle we could not discover success. Being human is our spiritual schooling of expansion.

Think about it for one sec please. We could not know what we really want unless we experience what we don't want. We could not know what is desired until we experienced the undesired.

The tricky part is, what we all want, what anyone wants is to be happy. The opposite of happy is stressed. Stress is fear, and fear causes all negative emotions.

My theory is there are three stages of life; innocence, adolescence, and enlightenment.

Innocence is the way we come into this world, loving to learn, loving to listen, loving to love, and loving to understand. We are innocent spiritual beings, pure unconditional love, entering the human world.

Adolescence is what we become when we are taught to compare, compete, complain, and criticize. We are taught these habits by our care givers, parents, and teachers. Life teaches us to try and be the best, or better than others, and when we aren't we are losers. Life teaches us that happiness is outside of us through what we have, and how others treat us.

There are many adults that are still adolescent, comparing, competing, complaining, criticizing, dramatizing, and gossiping. Where do you think teenagers learn it? I understand many people will disagree with what I have just stated because they do not want to hear it. I also understand that many people will refuse to see the truth in it.

Teenagers are the most awesome individuals that rebel because they become confused between the innocence and adolescence. Imagine being born unconditional love and then being taught to hate the self and others by way of focusing on what is wrong. It's confusing!

The stage of adolescence is also looking for happiness outside of the self rather than searching for it within. It is when people leave their happiness in the hands of their own distorted beliefs and moods, unknowingly blaming others for dissatisfactions.

Enlightenment is when we discover our spiritual nature of the unconditional love that we are. It's when one realizes happiness comes from the freedom of choosing one's focus, which establishes beliefs, which governs feelings, and directs actions. 

Enlightenment is when one reconnects with God, and when one begins creating habits that allows cooperation with God.

Enlightenment is when we discover our power, our value, and our worth, which points to pure bliss in this life. This bliss is literally, heaven on earth from energized positive power of unconditional love.

Enlightenment is the healing the stressful habits of being human. Enlightenment is releasing the negative emotions that one has learnt and practiced into near permanence, and reemerging into the unconditional love that he or she is.

When we are pure innocence, we have no negative emotions.

When we are adolescent, we learn and practice negative emotions.

When we are enlightened, we spend time releasing negative emotions, and healing them because that is the hurt in this life.

Everyone will experience negative emotions and hurt in this life. That statement alone indicates the learning the lessons of this human experience. Not one healthy "normal" person is exempt of stress in this human experience. 

Negative emotions are the stressful habits that must be healed so that one can get back to the unconditional love that he or she is.

There are only two emotions, love and fear. All emotions fall under one or the other.

Love feels like, eagerness, elation, excitement, exhilaration, contentment, happiness, joy, and unconditional love, because it is.

Fear is anger, anxiety, depression, despair, frustration, irritability, misery, and moodiness, and it feels horrible.

"There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear: because fear hath torment. He that feareth is not made perfect in love." ~1 John 4:18, New Testament, Holy Bible, KJV

As we overcome our fear, aka stress habits, we release the negative emotions that never belonged to us, and become, or reemerge rather, into perfect love. Perfect in love is unconditional love, and that is what we are.

Getting back to that perfect unconditional love that we are is the healing of the stressful human habits.

That's all I gots...

Sorry I fibbed about keeping my posts short and sweet, and straight to the meat. 

lol 

I'm trying, I promise!

Also... I love you my dear sibling of this world.

God bless you...

Take care...

Elizabeth