"There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear: because fear hath torment. He that feareth is not made perfect in love." ~1John 4:18
But, let's get back to the part where you are already successful. People often do not think they are successful because they aren't making the kind of money they want to make. Guess what? Money is not success. Money certainly is a part of success but another part, a big big part is happiness, the ability to enjoy life, and feeling good about yourself.
If we focus on money, and we are not making the kind of money we would like to, we are focusing on what we don't have, which is a very very stressful habit. You, my friend, are very successful. How do I know, because you have great relationships, you have great things in your life, and you are a productive person in society.
So many people come to me for their stress, and they do not see that they are successful until they look at what they have and what they have accomplished so far in life. Look at what you have! You have a roof over your head, you most likely have a car, and you have excellent relationships with your family, friends, and coworkers. Look at what you have accomplished so far! You most likely have successfully completed your schooling (perhaps not yet but are working on it), you have had many successful ventures, you have made it this far in life, and you have many many possessions.
You are successful!
My nephew and I were talking about this very subject yesterday. He said to me, "Thank you for your wisdom Untie, even though I only understood about 50% of it." That is brilliant because most people only get about 10% of it. I am betting that you get it, don't you?
I realize I ramble, and that is all I got, for now. ;0)
I hope with all my heart and soul that you have a wonderful week.